10/3/2008.
The idea of having a boyfriend has many losses and benefits.
For example, we all know that having a boyfriend is a great cock-blocker. Marriage and rings are an even greater cock-blocker.
Aside from that, there's the deterrence method I like from girls having boyfriends.
Places like where I live have a huge crime problem. And that women make up only 6% of the state prisons. So crime is mostly a guy-oriented thing.
What does this mean?
I sometimes feel that all the women in the world is a great deterrence from all the crime possible.
If a guy is having sex with his girlfriend, then he certainly can't at the same time be out in the streets gang banging, comitting crime, or bullying young children, and that is certainly a good thing.
The following references a page in the /Neal/Story/ folder.
How It Benefits Me When Others Have a Girlfriend
8/12/2009.
In middle school, such as 7th and 8th grade, I often got bullied by guys older than me, but mostly guys in my grade level.
But, you know, that sort of ended when they started having girlfriends. That is, they were definitely not going to bully me in front of their girlfriends.
This is something that I observed when I was 13 and 14. So when come high school, the freshman guys were more interested in girls than bullying me.
Anyways, to cut a story short, and to jump to another, remember the 13 year-old Black kid who forced me to suck his dick when I was 19? And the sodomy thing.
And also punched me in the eye, leaving it black for several days. All that.
And when he was 12, he urinated on me after wrestling with me in the park? When I was 18. All that.
Well, by the time he was 14 (and I being 20), he got a girlfriend. So he lost interest in me. As I was told, "he was always with a female." So no time for hanging around me.
Or in other words, it benefits me when others have girlfriends.