Egoism and Evil

10/29/2009.

Want to know why women don't like less-dominant guys as much? (Or actually, why women don't like non-dominant guys?).

Where less-confident means less-dominant or means nice guys.

The answer can be found within why guys don't like nicer guys.

This is actually not an article on females to guys, but guys to guys.

Example 1: The case with prisons, and sodomy.

Ironic enough, I find it that Black people express evolutionary behavior more than others.

Suppose you're some nice guy that was your 1st day in prison today!

If you are a nice guy, less-dominant, all that, what will happen to you in prison? You're going to get ass-raped! The bigger, more dominant guys will eventually sodomize you!

But suppose you are a bigger, tough guy, and don't take shit from nobody. And stronger. Then what happen? Your cell mates in prison will treat you with respect.

But suppose on your 1st day in prison, you come out acting as a touch guy when in fact, you really aren't. As soon as the guys figure that out, they'll try to play the alpha dog with you, and then eventually when they dominate over you you get sodomized.

Why is that?

This is the most harsh example - evolutionary instinct as it's best.

Example 2: The case with police officers, strong and effeminate.

Yea, you know the big tough police officers, big egos, (which we assume is natural and not artificial).

But let's say there's this neutral police officer (neutral as in not masculine). A cop that never argues with you. That is, waits until you're done talking before talking. Doesn't interrupt. Talks with a conversation-loud voice. Doesn't shout or overtalk or talk over you. Doesn't act like he sees everything as black and white, but as if there were gray.

Sure, criminals may be lesser-dominant with him, depending on the cop's size, but when they find out the cop's a nice guy, what do you think will happen?

Example 3:

Remember the 12 year-old Black guy that peed on me when I was 18? And a year later, he forced me to suck his cock, and sodomized me, when he was 13 when I was 19?

Well, around the time he was starting to get more aggressive, in a swimming pool area where he was shirtless and I wasn't, he said to me "Neal, when I 1st saw you, I thought you were strong! I didn't want to fuck with you. And now, I know you are my bitch."

(This is, by the way, nothing new, this story has been on this site for over 2 years now.).

Yes, he's been arrested before, and yes, he has a bad and future history from that time.

This example should prove my 1st example with the prisons.

Example 4: the case with Jewish people.

A reason why Jewish people are successful at what they do, in administrations and politics, I think, can be as a result of their big ego. And this is not something I pulled from thin air, but from the philosophy of Ayn Rand: Objectivism. Where the philosophy itself talks a lot about egoism. While it may not say what I say literally, you may be able to interpret that or it may imply that if you research into it.

(Want to study Chinese people? Study Chinese philosophers and Chinese culture. Want to study Jewish people? Study Jewish philosophers and Jewish culture.).

Example 5:

There's this nice old professor in the physics department at my school. He looks like Santa Claus. He's the type that gets along with anybody. He doesn't have anything bad to say about anybody and does not criticize people. He does not interrupt people and all that. He is a good listener. But, when he sees someone doing something wrong in the faculty side, he'll "politely" send an e-mail to the administration, reporting what he sees, and what he thinks should be done.

So as the years go by, do you think the administration will listen to him?

Because they know he got the small ego.

As opposed to a more powerful Jewish professor that if something was wronged, and he lobbied against the administration, I'd definitely expect a different response.

Example 6:

For example, when I'm in the lower economy neighborhoods, if I act like I'm tough, people treat me with respect. But if I act like I'm a wimp or wuss, people further treat me like crap.

Why is it like that? I wish I knew.

And if I tell the guys that I'm a virgin, never had a girlfriend or been in a relationship, never been on a date and never been kissed by a girl or held hands with a girl, we'll they'll instantly treat me like I'm a wimp and wuss.

But not so much the case in the "higher-class" societies.

When by nice people, I find that dominant guys just don't tend to associate with lesser-dominant guys. That bigger, more muscular guys don't tend to make friendship with smaller, less muscular guys, except when circumstances arrive such that the weaker guy is useful to the stronger guy (like can help him with his homework, can hire him a job he wants, is his boss, etc.).

Example 7: the most mild example.

The mild example being White-majority churches.

But not so much looks and strength that matters. But confidence in interpretation of the Bible.

Imagine if you had a guy that had a huge ego and knowledge of the Bible - so had the mentality of a pastor. Of course, women will look up to that guy.

^_^.

Example 8: a false example.

When Batman and Superman 1st met in the animated series, Batman acted like a huge arrogant ass hole with a big ego.

Right when Bruce Wayne was to go on the plane at the end, he'll say to Superman regarding Lois Lane "You better be good to her, I know where you live."

Or when Batman tries to threaten Superman with kryptonite or stalks and finds out where he lives.

But what does Batman and know and acknowledge? That Superman is a nice guy. That deep down, Superman is a nice guy.

But, this is fictional..

Conclusions:

By the way, this article assumes something. This article is under the realization that the "lower-economy neighborhoods and societies" are evil whereas the richer neighborhoods and societies - and upscale, are more nice.

And I have always found that to be the case.

When I live in the lower economy neighborhoods, where my rent was $475 a month, all my neighborhoods are loud mouths, swear at people, do drugs and smoke weed, drug dealers, etc. I've heard 1 of them swear about me to another. Sigh.

This goes back to my statement of faith, that when humans are free, they will naturally form cliques, and hierarchy. The point of this article being the hierarchy part.

By the way, this article is *not* about feminine guys. This article is about guys that's masculinity is a small number - or 0 (neutral), but *not* with masculinity at a negative number.

After reading all this, there isn't really much to say about if it's a mystery why girls don't tend to like lesser-dominant guys when it comes to friendship. We all know it is the case or why it is the case when it comes to relationship.

The interesting part is that when a female finds a "nice" guy that is not dominant, and she is not interested in being in a relationship with him, she's not interested in friendship with him. (Unless he of course, tries hard to pursue). It's either relationship or nothing at all - no in between, which leaves females at no will to try to make friendship with guys.

When you ask me why I've never had a girlfriend, that is an easy question. But, when you ask me why I don't have any or much female friends, that becomes a tougher question.

But.