Should Males Take Advice About Females From Females?

12/1/2009.

I've always thought if that's a good question to ask females - do females give males good advice about what they want?

Now, you can easily list all kinds of examples of advice females give to males, and believe it or not, they all tend to be the same, or revolve around the same concept. Such as.

-Looks me in the eye.
-Is honest.
-Cares about me.
-Fun, charming, or and outgoing personality.

Followed by not's, such as, is not creepy, and most certainly, is not desperate. As well as does not stare.

Now, those are good advice, but, there are things that women leave out, that is, what they are evolutionarily attracted to.

They are.

1.They like popular guys / don't like non-popular guys.

Therefore, they judge guys by how popular guys are with other girls.

But yet you never hear a girl say "-Needs to be popular among other [girls]." That should be added to their list when they give it. :]

My Dad would say to me, back in high school in the 1950s, if you were standing alone in the hallways, you would less likely be approach by females, and more likely if you were standing with a group of girls or a group of guys and girls.

1b.They like guys that are already popular with girls.

There's this guy, half-White and half-Hispanic, when we go to the weight room and see all these beautiful females, minding their own business, he would say to me "There the ones thinking we should be the 1st to talk to them." Anyways, as an autistic person taking advice about non-autistic people from non-autistic people, I believe him.

But his story goes, as he walks around downtown with his girlfriend, women in the oncoming direction would smile or wink at him, which annoys his girlfriend, but you know what, when he is walking alone, do women ever do that to him? Nope. They do not smile or give him the signal when he is without his girlfriend. ;)

1c.

Going back to 1a, think about it, if you were a guy sitting by yourself in a bar, would women be likely to approach you? As opposed to sitting with a pack?

Popularity is defined and can only apply as interactions within a group, making it impossible to apply for cases of only self.

A study once showed that when women saw a photo of a man, by himself, they had this x interest in him. But when they saw photos of men surrounded by women, they got x increased interest in him.

And then, the same study showed, for men, it was the other way around. So men liked photos of women by themselves than with other men.

And then this site, askmen.com, would say, "it evolutionarily makes sense."

This is a causality to an observation that it is evolutionarily a turn-off for men to be virgins, completely single, and always have been single, even though there are artificial exceptions, like the case of religious women, whom would be fighting their evolutionary instincts (but they reject/deny evolution anyways).

Think about it that all the women of the world are putting men to the test, and judge how men are with other women.

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A similar analogy to this is the case with Jewish people and gentiles (where gentile is a non-Jew). Imagine if a Jewish person observed a non-Jew. And it was the case that a lot of Jewish people liked the gentile. What kind of an impression would this give a Jewish person observing a gentile? Or suppose a lot of Jews hated the gentile, doesn't this show what particular Jews will view before knowing the gentile?

In this case, all the women of the world (or by popularity level) are as 1 entire tribe.
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2., 3., and 4.?

As far as other advice that women look for or anti-look for in men, I'd pretty much say those are already capable of being covered from women anyways. ;)

Bah, nevermind, I just thought of another 1.

2.They're also only interested in guys that have the balls to approach them 1st.

Otherwise, it's a sign of a turn-off.

So, again, you never hear a girl say "-Needs to be the 1st to talk to me 1st." That should also be added to their list when they give it. :]

This is also similar to that they judge you if you ever make your 1st move with them.

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By the way, you can probably tell now, that as the far-side, autistic observe, I can make the statement "All women are the same." That is, "all non-autistic women are the same." They just have different faces so you can tell them apart (same argument used on men the other way around, of course). Any non-autistic woman can say all men are the same of course.

I mean, all women have a personality proportional to their attractiveness, right? So of course they are all the same, they have the same if statements. (That is, you will never find an attractive woman with the mentality of an ugly 1 or an ugly 1 with the mentality of a hot chick.). So the contradictions are to the extent you can find 1 with a ... and 1 with a ... etc.

8/11/2010.

Oh yea.

And how could I forgot.

3.

They don't like sad guys. That is, they don't like guys that are "less" happier than they are.

The sad and sad a girl, and the more poor and poor and disadvantaged the girl, the more and more a guy can offer them.

But, for the same principle that women do not give the earned to the unearned, if they making you more happier, would be a turn-off for them. You have to be the 1 that makes them more happier.

So if a guy doesn't put a smile on his face, he will less likely be approached and signaled.