Why Flirting With Girls Fails

(An expansion from a summer 2008 post.)

Flirting with girls fails. Sorry, but I don't flirt with girls.

There are 2 reasons not to flirt with girls, and both of them involve a 50/50 probability-option risk.

The 1st reason to not flirt with girls is that you simply don't know if she's single or not. So the objective way is to ask her "Are you single?" And if she answers yes, you walk away continue on, and if she answers no, you start flirting with her.

How many of you seriously do that?

Since there's always the probability that a girl is not single, there is always a chance flirting fails. Also, the statistical assumption that a girl is single decreases as she is older. So if it's a 10 year-old girl you're going to flirt with, then likely, maybe at least 99% of the time, she is single. But if she were older, like 20 or 25, then the statistical likeliness of her being single exponentially decreases.

The 2nd reason not to flirt with girls is if a guy is around. Suppose a girl was with a guy and that prevents you from going to her and flirting with her. Then how does that justify if there was no guy and approaching her and flirting with her?

Clearly if you only flirt with girls that aren't with guys you are being bigoted. How do girls like it that guys will only approach them if they're not with a guy then with a guy?

So no, flirting fails, flirting fails in so many ways.

And yes, this is an article about flirting with random girls you don't know. It doesn't cover girls you do know or girls you do know if they're single or not.

Oh yea, like talking, and since flirting is a form of talking, flirting also requires consent. Or should you ask a girl if it's okay to flirt with her 1st?

(To summarize.).

When it is okay to flirt.

If it doesn't matter whether a girl is with a guy or not, and it doesn't matter whether a girl is single or not, and it doesn't matter whether a girl is a guy or not, then yes, flirt away.

3) - a girl could also be a lesbian.