I was peed on by 2 black guys in a park, both shorter than me, both weighed less than me, and both were younger than me. 1 was 3 years younger than me, the other was 6 years younger than me. That is, a 15 and 12 year old. This happened in San Diego, California.

The philosophy of how one reacts to that:

Boring stuff.

There are 2 ways one can reach to this, when they get peed on. They are:

Mad.

Or sad.

For me, it was sad. Rather than anger, emotions are what got to me. And that I find to be less stressful. If I were mad, angered, or pissed off, that would have probably just made things worse. The problem, as I often view it, is that most (males) would take offense, and get upset, and probably be vengeful. This could probably be the starting case of a long constant revenge-hate-fight to last. And that can end until one stops or apologizes. Nevertheless, I don't seek revenge.

A side feeling I had as I layed on the grass with my stomach down and back up and getting peed on (or after), was disappointment. These were the guys I gave change to, pizza, etc. But I guess the guy they were peeing on, was a case where you were exempt from humiliation! As I took law classes before, I often let them ask me any questions they have on criminal law, and I did tell them that they probably didn't commit any crime, by peeing on me. For example, battery is when you hit someone, but the law extends far enough to throwing a water balloon at someone. But peeing? I couldn't find a peeing law in the state's penal code book..

Beating the 2 guys up, also wasn't an option for me, as that certainly would give me a bad name in the minority black families in the complex (823 units). Complex, is a California term for, a housing/apartment/condominium community, where ours was gated, had its own swimming pools, etc. The 2 kids were relying that I don't get pissed off at them after they peed on me, so I had to accept that, which I did. Before that, the 12 year old had previously constantly tried to piss me off, by slapping me in the face, pushing me, etc. Trying to find a way to piss me off (as he even asked me what pisses me off). I imagine I told him nothing, and that I would purposely try not to be pissed off anyways. Well, he was determined to find a way to piss me off. As far as trying to piss me off, this ended that day he peed on me, which was when he and the 15 year old had wrestling matches with me in the park. However, peeing on me, was the 12 year old's idea. This idea did not occur to the 15 year old, and would not even have crossed his mind. At first, when the 12 year old mentioned peeing on me during wrestling he didn't take him seriously, but when the time came, after the 12 year old peed on me, he said something to the 15 year old, "Now you do it," or, "It's your turn," etc. The 15 year old, seemingly a bit confused, paused, and slowly did it, for the 12 year old.

The 15 year old was in 10th grade; the 12 year old in 7th grade, but his age was that of a 6th grader because he started a year early. The 15 year old was probably 5 foot 5, 130 pounds, and the 12 year old was 5 foot 2 and 122 pounds. Though later he said he reweighed and weighed 127. In other words, if the 2 guys were the same age, the 12 year old was a bigger man than the 15 year old. But being 3 years younger, he looked up to the 15 year old too. After all, they were in this together. Of course, the 15 year old disappointed me even more, as I knew him a bit longer - over a year, and the 12 year old I only met for a couple weeks.

This event happened in May or June 2006, at the very end of my senior year in high school, the exact date can probably be looked up as I said this on the Internet, and I log (dated) all my conversations. I first met the 15 year old at the beginning my my 11th grade year, where I one day approached him when he looked sad and offered to buy him lunch, to which he said okay. I did that several times throughout the school year, and a bit more the following school year. So for him listening to the 12 year old...oh well. He could have said, this is not me...but instead he chose to listen to the 12 year old, of course. I on the other hand was silent during the whole time. That night my mom ordered pizza for the 15 year old and another 15 year old (both black). The 12 year old was not allowed out at night. That's where the 15 year old said I was a real man, he honored me, and said he couldn't take that if it were him.

The urine on my clothes didn't smell strongly while outside, but as I later went home (they ran off after they peed, leaving me soaking in the grass), and as I pulled my sweater off in front of the washing machine, that's where the smell was really strong, but only for less than a couple seconds.

Days have passed, probably a week, since I saw the 12 year old after the incident, so that the next time I saw him he was dribbling a basketball and the situation was almost forgotten, though he did bring it up sometime. He once said, "When I first saw you, I was afraid of you cuz I thought you were strong. But now I find I pissed on you." This will probably be quite a memorable incident for the remaining years of the 12 year old's childhood. Because then he can tell the 13 year olds in his school (as he started school a year early), that he peed on an 18 year old. And this could potentially make him special.

Throughout my remaining stay in San Diego, I did tell him that sometime in the summer I was moving to Chicago for college and may come back in a year. The 12 year old did tell me he would want to see me again (as most children would). In a way, that incident helped our relationship, as he was much nicer to me after.

What I would find discusting, is how other people would have reacted to this if it happened to them. Take a weak 60 year old for example, and imagine how such a man could react to being peed on by young black kids? I could see this could seriously shatter his anger, his frustration, and how much of an impact it can affect his health. And how stressed out he could be. He would be living the unhealthy life. Well, I think people should keep their cool, regardless of how old they are.

Additional stuff.

On July 30, 2006, 1 month after I moved out to Chicago, I got a phone call from the other 15 year old (the one that didn't pee on me), that both the 12 year old and 15 year old were arrested. In other words, Hell broke lose shortly after I moved out. The 12 year old's dad recently got out of jail, and the 15 year old's dad recently got in. But for the 12 and 15 year old, this was the case where the 2 spray painted some car (with graffiti?), and neighbors called the police, identified them as 2 young black kids, and the police took it to the security guards who knew the neighborhood kids, etc. Both of them were to either go straight to juvenile hall or their family pay a fine. Well, now both of them got an early curfew. The 12 year old, is not allowed outside his house ever alone, except with an adult family member, or the police have the right to take him away. The 2 also have a restraining order from each other, and are not allowed to talk to each other...but yet, they both are on a same football team in Pop Warner. The 15 year old has his own probation officer.

Later phone calls revealed some minor changes.

What's interesting was, defacing a car or whatever, is vandalism. And yet, I once gave the 12 year old the California law book, where the 12 year old read out loud vandalism (either the definition or definition and penalty). This was the case where a girl down the street once made a mess of the wood chucks in the front yard of the 12 year old, so that, the black kids being mad at her, I suggested why not get out the law book and read to her the crime she committed? Agreed! Running home and back with to get the law book, we (well they) told her what she committed was vandalism, where she argues no it wasn't. That's where one of the black guys, after the 12 year old already reading it, handed the law book to the girl to show her exactly where the crime was. How ironic that the 12 year old after reading it (but I knew he would forget as I can't even remember the details) will end up commiting that crime? Except on a vehicle.